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Alex Leon – Social Media Dating Guide

Alex Leon’s “Social Media Dating Guide” offers practical strategies for leveraging social media platforms to improve dating prospects and build meaningful relationships. The guide covers profile optimization, effective communication techniques, and tips for engaging with potential partners. It aims to help individuals present their best selves online, navigate social media interactions, and successfully transition from virtual connections to real-life relationships.

What’s up gentlemen! It’s Alex Lèon here.

In the past few years at TNL, as we coached thousands of guys in person at our workshops, we noticed that the ways women screen and select––most times unconsciously––potential romantic and sexual partners have evolved.
Back in the day, good cold approaching skills were all you needed to stand out from the noise and show to a girl that you were a cool guy worth seeing again. If the interaction was decent and you got a phone number, the odds of getting her out on a date were pretty high.
Today, however, even the most average girl you wouldn’t normally notice and approach in the clubs or during daytime can have thousands of thirsty dudes liking her pictures on Instagram and sliding into her DMs––pumping overall women´s validation levels through the roof.
The rise of popular IG celebrities and creative people sharing behind the scenes in their amazing lives has reinforced a new narrative most attractive women live by when deciding if a guy is interesting and worth meeting again or not…
“Let me check his Instagram profile.”
This is the moment that makes it or breaks it.
Often, girls will stalk you or immediately ask for your profile to choose whether you’re a new potential lover to date or a guy with poor value to avoid.

Seduction is, to an extent, a numbers game.

Of course, you can massively improve your stats by working a lot on becoming an interesting man, learning elite social skills, or leveling up in your appearance.

But the reality is that on average, even if you become world-class at cold-approaching if you go out and approach ten women in the streets:

maybe won’t even acknowledge you.
will be like “no thanks, I’m busy” (or are nice but have a boyfriend and won’t cheat).
you can talk to but only for a couple of minutes, enough to get their Instagram and number before they run away.
is a long solid interaction. If you’re skilled enough you can take her home right away.

So, the truth is that because of the nature of the cold approach, most of your interactions will be on the shorter side. That means the girl is possibly intrigued by you but not attracted to and comfortable enough with you to date you.